Playing to Win

Playing to Win
Author: Hilary Levey Friedman
Publisher: Univ of California Press
Total Pages: 304
Release: 2013-08-03
Genre: Psychology
ISBN: 0520276752

"Many parents work more hours outside of the home and their lives are crowded with more obligations than ever before; many children spend their evenings and weekends trying out for all-star teams, traveling to regional and national tournaments, and eating dinner in the car while being shuttled between activities. In this vivid ethnography, based on almost 200 interviews with parents, children, coaches and teachers, Hilary Levey probes the increase in children's participation in activities outside of the home, structured and monitored by their parents, when family time is so scarce. As the parental "second shift" continues to grow, alongside it a second shift for children has emerged--especially among the middle- and upper-middle classes--which is suffused with competition rather than mere participation. What motivates these particular parents to get their children involved in competitive activities? Parents' primary concern is their children's access to high quality educational credentials--the biggest bottleneck standing in the way of, or facilitating entry into, membership in the upper-middle class. Competitive activities, like sports and the arts, are seen as the essential proving ground that will clear their children's paths to the Ivy League or other similar institutions by helping them to develop a competitive habitus. This belief, motivated both by reality and by perception, and shaped by gender and class, affects how parents envision their children's futures; it also shapes the structure of children's daily lives, what the children themselves think about their lives, and the competitive landscapes of the activities themselves"--

No Contest

No Contest
Author: Alfie Kohn
Publisher: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt
Total Pages: 340
Release: 1992
Genre: Aggressiveness
ISBN: 9780395631256

Argues that competition is inherently destructive and that competitive behavior is culturally induced, counter-productive, and causes anxiety, selfishness, self-doubt, and poor communication.

Mom's Guide to Raising a Good Student

Mom's Guide to Raising a Good Student
Author: Vicki Poretta
Publisher: Wiley
Total Pages: 196
Release: 1997-10-29
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 9780028619422

The imprint that brought you the Complete Idiot's Guide series now carries the same inviting, non-intimidating format to a new series. With more and more moms working today and single mothers on the rise, moms need a quick reference to help steer them in the right direction when it comes to raising their kids. All moms will feel more at ease after reading the advice and wisdom from one experienced mom in these light-hearted, clever, and chatty books. Geared towards mothers of children between the ages of 8-14, this series addresses common concerns that parents have. As our society grows more competitive by the minute, raising a conscientious and serious student could never be more important. This book provides tips on how to get children to perform the best they can in the classroom. Features advice on getting kids to do their homework, develop effective study habits, and make the most out of their free time, whether that be during the weekends or during summer break. Also teaches moms the importance of not pressuring their kids to get straight A's.

Everyone Wins!

Everyone Wins!
Author: Josette Luvmour
Publisher: New Society Publishers
Total Pages: 129
Release: 2009-03-01
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 1550923803

A new edition of this best-selling games book for kids of all ages.

Playing to Win

Playing to Win
Author: Hilary Levey Friedman
Publisher: Univ of California Press
Total Pages: 305
Release: 2013-08-03
Genre: Social Science
ISBN: 0520956699

Playing to Win: Raising Children in a Competitive Culture follows the path of elementary school-age children involved in competitive dance, youth travel soccer, and scholastic chess. Why do American children participate in so many adult-run activities outside of the home, especially when family time is so scarce? By analyzing the roots of these competitive afterschool activities and their contemporary effects, Playing to Win contextualizes elementary school-age children's activities, and suggests they have become proving grounds for success in the tournament of life—especially when it comes to coveted admission to elite universities, and beyond. In offering a behind-the-scenes look at how "Tiger Moms" evolve, Playing to Win introduces concepts like competitive kid capital, the carving up of honor, and pink warrior girls. Perfect for those interested in childhood and family, education, gender, and inequality, Playing to Win details the structures shaping American children's lives as they learn how to play to win.

Raise Them Up

Raise Them Up
Author: Sally Burke
Publisher: Harvest House Publishers
Total Pages: 206
Release: 2019-08-06
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 0736969802

“When God fills a parent’s heart with His Word and then, out of the overflow of the heart, prayer flows, the very same earth-changing power is released into the lives of our children.” Jennifer Kennedy Dean, author and executive director of The Praying Life Foundation “Praying scriptures over your children is the key to raising up leaders.” Pam Farrell, bestselling author and international speaker “This book is a beautiful tool to encourage our souls to press on and continue to ask, seek, and knock for the lives of our children.” Wendy Palau, National Prayer Team With Raise Them Up you will learn effective strategies to lift your children up in prayer. You will discover the joy of interceding for your children as you pray specific scripture prayers. Through inspirational stories and thoughtful guidance, you’ll be motivated to… pray bold prayers to help your children in every situation experience the impact of powerful prayers to fulfill God’s purposes trust God more when you speak His Word over your children live out your purpose as you seek God’s will for your family When you pray Scripture over your children’s lives, you can trust that you are praying God’s will.

Elevating Child Care

Elevating Child Care
Author: Janet Lansbury
Publisher: Rodale Books
Total Pages: 177
Release: 2024-04-30
Genre: Family & Relationships
ISBN: 0593736168

A modern parenting classic—a guide to a new and gentle way of understanding the care and nurture of infants, by the internationally renowned childcare expert, podcaster, and author of No Bad Kids “An absolute go-to for all parents, therapists, anyone who works with, is, or knows parents of young children.”—Wendy Denham, PhD A Resources for Infant Educarers (RIE) teacher and student of pioneering child specialist Magda Gerber, Janet Lansbury helps parents look at the world through the eyes of their infants and relate to them as whole people who have natural abilities to learn without being taught. Once we are able to view our children in this light, even the most common daily parenting experiences become stimulating opportunities to learn, discover, and connect with our child. A collection of the most-read articles from Janet’s popular and long-running blog, Elevating Child Care focuses on common infant issues, including: • Nourishing our babies’ healthy eating habits • Calming your clingy, fearful child • How to build your child’s focus and attention span • Developing routines that promote restful sleep Eschewing the quick-fix tips and tricks of popular parenting culture, Lansbury’s gentle, insightful guidance lays the foundation for a closer, more fulfilling parent-child relationship, and children who grow up to be authentic, confident, successful adults.

Kids Creation (Nepal)

Kids Creation (Nepal)
Author:
Publisher: ebookbhandar.com
Total Pages: 81
Release:
Genre:
ISBN: 0986732370

A Nepali Children Magazine featuring articles, poems, arts by kids of Nepali origin living in the USA and Canada.

Raising Kids Who Will Make a Difference

Raising Kids Who Will Make a Difference
Author: Susan V. Vogt
Publisher: Loyola Press
Total Pages: 323
Release: 2009-07-07
Genre: Religion
ISBN: 082943061X

Raising kids to be socially conscious and embrace strong values can be difficult in today's world. In Raising Kids Who Will Make a Difference, mother, counselor, and family-life educator Susan Vogt sets out to inspire, equip, and comfort parents in the awesome task of raising Catholic kids who will make positive contributions to our world. Using a delightful blend of honesty and humor, Vogt offers successful parenting strategies and straightforward discussions on important issues such as sexuality, substance abuse, materialism, racism, global awareness, and death.

My Mother/My Self

My Mother/My Self
Author: Nancy Friday
Publisher: Delta
Total Pages: 449
Release: 1997-09-08
Genre: Self-Help
ISBN: 0385320159

When Nancy Friday began her research for My Mother/My Self in the early 1970’s no work existed that explored the unique interaction between mother and daughter. Today psychotherapists throughout the world acknowledge that if women are to be able to love without possessing, to find work that fulfills them, and to discover their full sexuality, they must first acknowledge their identity as separate from their mother’s. Nancy Friday’s book played a major role in that acceptance. The greatest gift a good mother can give remains unquestioning love planted deep in the first year of life, so deep and anassailable that the tiny child grown to womanhood is never held back by the fear of losing that love, no matter what her own choice in love, sexuality, or work may be. Through candid self-disclosure and hundreds of interviews, Friday investigates a generational legacy and reveals the conflicting feelings of anger, hate, and love the daughter’s hold for their mothers–and why they so often “become” that mother themselves.